How To Stop Yourself To Get Angry And Bothered By Negative People

Humbleness is greatly undervalued in the modern world in fact most company executives firmly believe that the way to success is to be conceited boastful and even rude however this viewpoint is hugely inaccurate because boastful behavior is not helpful it evokes the envy in others everybody in this world loves to be successful but very few love to see others successful and in boastfulness when we repeatedly appraise others of our stellar achievements we only create jealousy in them on the other hand when we take the humble position we evoke their sympathy and win others over to our side as supporters let us learn from kuleshakhar and namviar they were two reciters of ramakata residing in the same city in south india gulashekhar was very popular and whenever his katha would take place in any temple the whole temple would become jam-packed with eager devotees nambiar on the other hand was less popular because his katha was less a rasmai and that used to create bitterness in his mind for kulashekar one day in a temple near nambyar's house kulashekhar's katha was happening a huge crowd used to gather in the evening and nambiar's wife also went one day now that only increased namibia's frustration he arrived at the temple and saw the crowd listening spellbound to the leelas of lord rama recited by kulashekhar and nambiar's temperature kept on increasing until he could bear it no longer and he exclaimed you have no right to do the ramakatha you have no understanding of ram you are ignorant and the people listening to you are even more ignorant there was stunned silence nambiar's wife got up and left nambiar himself started walking back later at home he began regretting through the night he could not sleep remorseful about the way he had become annoyed in the morning at five o'clock he could bear his guilt no longer and decided to go and apologize to kulushakar he got out of the house it was still dark he collided into someone who was sitting at his doorstep all cuddled up in a blanket nambiar shown the lamp and discovered it was kulashekar kulashekar spoke up sir i am a sinner last evening i did something that annoyed you but i could not understand what my fault was if you will please appraise me of it i'll have the opportunity to correct myself [music] now we are melted in front of that manifestation of humility and became a life-long friend of kuleshakar so the virtue to hold in hiring heart to imbibe in ourselves is humbleness even the winner of the gold medal only receives it when he or she on the victory dies bows the head down i am reading to you a little bit from this commentary bhagavad-gita the song of god if we become proud of the good deeds that we have done the pride soils our heart and undoes the good that is why it is important to keep an attitude of humility if i was able to do something good it was only because god inspired my intellect in the right direction left to myself i would never have been able to do it to keep such an attitude of humbleness is an important aspect of surrender and those who have been hugely successful in the world have invariably realized the importance of inner humility mahatma gandhi had a close lifelong associate anand the swami anand swami once got into a quarrel with the cook reva shankar and he slapped him mahatma gandhi came to know and said if the cook had been bigger and stronger or more powerful would you have done it go and apologize and if you don't possess the humbleness to do so then you are not qualified to stay with me the greatest scientist in history sir isaac newton despite his amazing discoveries had the humbleness to see at the end of his life i was like a child playing with pebbles on the seashore while the whole undiscovered ocean lay in front of me this quality is so wonderful when found in people it can easily be identified as an integral part of a glorious character before he retired to the forest divided his kingdom amongst nine of his sons bharat was the eldest and desired to declare his dominion over all however in his becoming chakravarthi samrat there was one obstacle his younger brother bahubali refused baahubali's viewpoint was my father gave this kingdom to me who is bharat to cast an evil eye upon it so a war became inevitable between the two brothers counselors suggested why not avoid it and settle the matter through a wrestling match without weapons the malyuth began bharath started losing as a last recourse he resorted to injustice he invoked the chatra ratna weapon that he had received from his father and released it upon his brother bahubali bharat had forgotten that the weapon would not work against family members the chakra ratna reached baahubali and stopped there baahubali became annoyed because bharat had taken recourse to injustice he threw bharath on the ground jumped upon his chest and was about to beat him upon to death when he suddenly thought what is this in the greed to get a kingdom i have become so disrespectful that i am jumping on top of my elders fire to this temptation i don't want this kingdom he walked away from there and became a monk he may have renounced the external kingdom but he won the inner treasure the inner spiritual wealth so for our own spiritual nourishment and progress on the journey of inner growth we must definitely make it our priority to keep growing in the virtue of humbleness so you